The massage therapist is not interested in his own sexual pleasure, but in satisfying his customer. You are not interested in sex either, but only in having a pair of hands take care of your needs.įurthermore, you’re entirely passive. You can close your eyes and fantasise about whatever you want to. Or, you can just enjoy the massage with a clear mind, focused only on pleasure, not sex. So to conclude go try a nuru massage in New York today.King Spa was a good place to ditch my late-winter blues along with my clothes. The unisex men’s bath has four tubs of various temperatures, one wet sauna, one dry sauna and several stand-up and sit-down showers. You definitely have to be comfortable with seeing naked and going naked. It's a meagre substitute against actual outside naturism but it's better than staying home and turning up the heat during a Northeast winter. I did check out the co-ed area and I cannot recommend the spa on those grounds. You must wear a set of shorts and a shirt that King Spa provides You subsequently fill your textiles with sweat as you move from sauna to sauna. Top freedom is not allowed in the co-ed area and that applies to men and women. All stars I award an establishment are based upon this system: * * * * * means coed, non-sexual nudity is allowed * * * * means unisex, non-sexual nudity is allowed * * * means you can probably get away with being naked but it is not legally allowed * * means get naked at your own risk, you might get arrested * means the place advertises as nudist but allows sexual nudity and/or swinging (I don't know if New Jersey has top-free equality but that is moot at this establishment.) My recommendation to nudists is to go to King Spa in the winter while you pine for warmer days. This was a different experience and it was nice stepping out of my comfort zone. The place is very clean, spacious and comfortable. Now it seems100% Korean so there maybe some staff with little English speaking skills but that didn't bother me. I am thankful I went with two other friends otherwise I might have been overwhelmed. When we checked in we didn't get a good tour of the place or layout and that's the only negative I would say happened. Being totally naked in the bath areas and how large/ open it was was interesting! Seeing the various rooms and sleep areas was also interesting. But the best experience was the body scrub.